thehippiejew:

forsayingyes:

gqgqqt:

so this is a thing

a bunch of moms are making letters+audio recordings of affirming, validating letters to queer/trans* people who don’t get that kind of support from their moms

i would say more about it but

im kind of busy in this puddle of tears on the floor so

In case any of my followers don’t have this kind of support from home…

my mom did this and if you need an honourary mother i promise she would be happy to talk to you

tagged: +;u;  +mogii  +resources 
queerness exists outside of fucking

prettyofcenter:

it exists outside of dating
outside of flirting
it just exists

tagged: +important 
oscarprgirl:

Sophia. @daviddownton

oscarprgirl:

Sophia. @daviddownton

tagged: +dang  +art 
clarawebbwillcutoffyourhead:

blasianxbri:

fightxtoxdream:

sirmoore:

respect each other.

Basically what I said in that text post. This shit needs to stop

amen.

ok but one is systemic and built into the fabric of our society and ingrained in our language (wearing a wife beater, rule of thumb) and the other is actually a fairly rare occurrence that usually happens in self defense. and it’s disingenuous to suggest otherwise. “Men stop beating ladies stop smacking” is overly simplistic and ignores the fact that like, male violence is encouraged by our culture and then we act surprised when it breaks out again and again even though we ignore all the little, small, tedious every day details of it and even though women are beaten and killed by their partners every day.
or am I taking a stupid tweet way too seriously?

clarawebbwillcutoffyourhead:

blasianxbri:

fightxtoxdream:

sirmoore:

respect each other.

Basically what I said in that text post. This shit needs to stop

amen.

ok but one is systemic and built into the fabric of our society and ingrained in our language (wearing a wife beater, rule of thumb) and the other is actually a fairly rare occurrence that usually happens in self defense. and it’s disingenuous to suggest otherwise. “Men stop beating ladies stop smacking” is overly simplistic and ignores the fact that like, male violence is encouraged by our culture and then we act surprised when it breaks out again and again even though we ignore all the little, small, tedious every day details of it and even though women are beaten and killed by their partners every day.

or am I taking a stupid tweet way too seriously?

tagged: +misogyny  +patriarchy  +sj 

when you discover new music and it feels like you found jesus

bidyke:

anagrammaton:

anagrammaton:

like, if you’re attracted to cis women but not attracted to trans women, i definitely urge you to ask yourself why

trans women are a really really broad class and i can’t see any meaningful way that someone being part of that class necessarily tells you much about our bodies. is the difference something which is actually there (and there is not much there) or something which patriarchy has constructed?

because i think it’s an awfully huge coincidence if the entire class of people who you just happen to categorically not be attracted to are also an entire class of people who patriarchy just happens to take every opportunity to construct as disgusting and unfuckable

like that oppressive socialisation probably has something to do with that preference, and if you interrogate it you might find that the only reason you weren’t open to intimacy w trans women was because of it

if you do so then congratulations, you’ve successfully beaten up the little patriarchal cop in your head!

Hello dear friends! Would you mind circulating this post again? Literally only transmisogynists are doing that now, passing it around with godawful commentary on it and smugly tagging it #rape culture and if i get called a rapist one more time by a smug BDSM blogger i’m going to flip my shit, thank u all <3

THIS POST IS TRUTH AND IF YOU THINK IT’S NOT BETTER THINK AGAIN

slayboybunny:

if youre feeling like a big awkward fuck up who messes up everything just think about how if u were a character in a work of fiction sooo many people would see your perceived flaws as lovable and endearing character traits and how youd still be their favorite character to draw coffeeshop AUs of regardless

cartel:

walking into the wrong class

image

tagged: +! 

ravenre-yes:

i’m here
i’m queer
can i go back to bed now

tagged: +c'est moi 

lesbooian:

If you say GLBT don’t talk to me